If one takes a realistic look, you're bound to find that the man who is Mr Popular with women - no matter what he looks like - is often the one who pays attention to them. He'll take time to really hear her out and look her in the eye when talking. He'll appreciate and compliment every details like a new haircut, a nice perfume, a new dress or bag, thus silently telling her that he is really paying attention. And as we all know it, there's nothing a woman loves more than a loving and attentive guy.
When it comes to relationships, guy's approach relationships and sex in the very same way they approach life. Hence, if he is passionate about life and living it to the fullest, he's bound to be the same about the relationships. If he respects women and doesn't think of them of second fiddle, he's bound to give you the same respect and attention.
"Apart from his looks, physical traits like height and voice modulation also work to increase a man's sensuality quotient. But more importantly, it's his empathy and unconditional positive regard for his partner that scores the more brownie points," says Seema Hingorrany, clinical psychologist and psychotherapist. According to her, though our psyche is more conditioned to considering a person's physical attributes, it's the man's psychological traits that make him more attractive and desirable. "If he understands and empathises with her when she's low or in a bad mood and says the right things, he's definitely scoring big time," she says.
Another very important consideration, according to Seema, the quality of being an extrovert. "Women dig men who smile a lot and have a good sense of humour. They say it helps diffuse their tension and stress. Communication skills - being well read, know what he's talking about, being able to hold his ground in a conversation, being confident when he's introduced to her friends and not bragging about himself endlessly - are a very important consideration," she explains.
"It's the little things that matter the most, then be it his chivalry, capacity to pay attention to smaller details and also, being mindful of his manners. The most important trait, however, is the way he behaves towards a woman, especially playing attention to what she says and being caring without being possessive," opines model Shruti Agarwal. She adds that a personal sense of hygeine - clean nails, putting a bit of effort into dressing well - are also huge turn-ons.
Designer Nishka Lulla describes a sensual man as one who takes care of his woman and if a situation arises, takes control of it knowing exactly what he's doing. "Also, he must obviously be chivalrous - it's never to ancient to hold the door open for your lady, loyal, responsible and dependable. He may not be the best looking hunk around town but that's no excuse for not being clean and well groomed. A man who makes the effort to take care of his looks is always appreciated. Lastly and most importantly, he should know how to pamper his lady," she says.
"At the first meeting, his appearance - the way he dresses and carries himself - would count. But once that's been established, a man who is charming with a potent dose of sex appeal will definitely make a mark," says designer Gayatri Khanna. According to her, if a guy only has a good body and nothing else to boast about, she'd think, "Oh what a lovely clown!'. "He must know how to hold his lady's attention. A good sense of humour, being worldly wise, up to date with his general knowledge, being witty, broad-minded and modern in his thingking are the traits I'd look for. Also, he must show a sense of maturity in both, his decisions and his actions," she adds.
In conclusion Seema says, "When in a relationship, remember this formula: emotional compatibility = sexual compatibility."
Male turn-ons
Smelling good and being well-groomed
Being neatly dressed
Being intelligent and articulate
Making his partner the focus of his attention
Honest conversation
Laughter and a sense of humour
Knowing what's going on in the world
Complimenting his partner and being sincere about it
Being open-minded and interested in trying new things
Not bragging constantly about himself and his achievements
Not being rude to people like waiters, drivers, lift-men, etc
Not constantly starring at her chest instead of her face
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